Breaking up with 'Should'

Who decided on what we 'should' do with our lives? I'd like a word with them

According to my formerly hard-wired ‘Should’-brain, I ought to have two kids, a ‘Head of Department’ role and at least one Burberry trench coat by now. I should know how to navigate social situations with prowess and I definitely should have learned how to handle my alcohol. I should have had a huge wedding in a French chateaux around my 30th birthday, …